Watheroo grower Bradley Millsteed started #6Bs as an outlet for growers. It has proven popular, with events spreading across WA. Photo: supplied

Facing a tough season and the loss of local team sports due to declining population, Watheroo grower Bradley Millsteed and a few mates gathered around a bonfire on his farm one evening in May 2017.

That simple act evolved into the #6Bs, an acronym for “blokes, BBQ, bonfire, beers, bonding and bullshit”, and a grassroots men’s mental health movement built on connection, conversation and communication.

Already a supporter of Movember, which raises funds for men’s physical and mental health projects, Bradley was keen to check in on his fellow growers. About 25 blokes turned up on 8 May, also known as M8 Day.

“So we stuck a match in and had a barbecue there,” he says.

It was only ever going to be that one night, but for Bradley it delivered a message that this connection was needed: “It’s not disrespectful to our ladies or our families.

“It’s just about guys making the time to get out and have some bloke time,” he says.

Responding to a need

Feedback has continued to be overwhelmingly positive. Bradley says it’s common for men to thank #6Bs, which is run by volunteers, for organising the informal events and giving them an outlet.

“As blokes, we are bloody hopeless at going to a professional when we need a little bit of help ourselves,” he says.

“We all know you can’t keep putting sheep into a paddock without causing erosion, and it’s the same with our ‘top paddock’ ... I’ve also learned you’ve got to share the good times and joy, not just when the shit’s going really bad.”

Events have since been held across WA and interstate, attracting up to 70 men at a time, with the offer of a space to recharge, share the load and support one another.

“Ordinary people authentically sharing lived experiences makes a real difference,” Bradley says.

“That’s one of the powerful things of the #6Bs. People are prepared to stand up ... say what they’ve been through, and answer questions about how they got through it.”

More information: #6Bs

If you or someone you know needs help, support is available from Lifeline 13 11 14, Beyond Blue 1300 224 636, MensLine Australia 1300 78 99 78, TIACS 0488 846 988 and Rural Aid 1300 17 55 94.

This article appeared in GroundCover